Tradition Tuesday: 5 reception traditions you can totally break

Tips + Advice // by QB

Whether you’re after a totally contemporary celebration or something a little more classic, there are a handful of traditions out there that seem, well, a little unnecessary (just saying). Planning a fun-filled reception? Consider these five traditions and whether you’ll want to keep or update them…

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Luke---and---mallory-We still think ‘cutting the cake’ is a fabulous part of the reception, but it can become a little complicated if you’re embracing the current trend of serving alternative sweets (like doughnuts, churros or cupcakes) or a cake of cheese wheels. A fun twist on this event is to bust into a wedding cake piñata filled with lollies or perhaps even some sweet hand-written messages. Plenty of party stores can source these for you, but you can also find instructions online to make your own DIY masterpiece.

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alisa-anton-383031This tradition goes back hundreds of years, but it can be a bit of a nuisance. If you don’t fancy removing the top tier, organising to take it home and having it take up precious space in your freezer for 12 months (or if you have a single-tier cake), you can still take part in the custom by thinking outside the box. Is there a premium spirit you both love? Have a new bottle on display at the reception and pour a drink from it each year. Or keep things a little more intimate and wear something from the big day on an anniversary date night each year – think jewellery or shoes for you; a tie, shoes or cufflinks for him. We even know of one fabulous bride who brings out her wedding dress every anniversary – even when she was pregnant and couldn’t do it up!

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RealWedding_Stephanie_Testa38Let’s get this absolutely straight: wedding favours are a quick way to make a wedding expensive and are totally optional. Save funds – but still treat your guests – by having a flower station at the end of the night. While everyone’s up and dancing, have your venue staff collect and deconstruct all your floral arrangements, place them on a table together with paper and string, and then invite your guests to make their own takeaway posies. Or show off your baking skills (or those of a loved one) and make sweet treats using time-honoured family recipes. Your famous chocolate-chip cookies, Nonna’s cannoli, Dad’s fudge or Mum’s shortbread – they’re all cost-effective gifts that come from the heart.

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From the wedding of Sarah and BillyIt’s a popular idea, but seating everyone at a head table isn’t the only option out there. Up the romance with a sweetheart table and set up a small (and beautifully decorated) table for just you and your husband, and seat your bridal party among your other guests. Or, leave two spare seats at every table and visit a new one before, during and after each course. It’ll mean you’re on the go throughout the reception but you’ll get to share a special moment with your friends and family.

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From the wedding of Jade and BenAfter all the festivities of the reception, making a grand exit as a couple is kind of expected, but it doesn’t have to be totally cheesy. Getting your guests to make a tunnel for you to walk under can be a bit clumsy (unless you fancy slouching down and potentially ruining your hairdo), and more couples are swapping this for a dazzling sparkler walkway exit. But if you’re a little more private or you’re simply not ready to call it a night, ditch the whole grand exit altogether and just say your farewells to your remaining guests.

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Piñata cake image courtesy of Luke and Mallory